The quality and attitude of individual members of the society is key determinant of a stable and peaceful nation. being the bricks to be used as building materials , their nature affects the strength and lifespan of a nation. however, the producer of the building materials being a family, its stand in this venture is far and wide because future leaders in all spheres go through the family making it a real power house in all stable nations.
given the fact that some families neglect their noble role in of preparing the individuals for future ambitions and goal, it is a common out cry from the public, places of work and other institutions were these people end up.
the constant criticism and pointing of accusing fingers to the governments for the uprightness and sovereignty of a given nation gives a conclusion that the manning and erecting a stable nation has been left to the mercy of those in power. the peaceful, corrupt free, democratic and socially stable nation should be the work of every individual and the respective institutions.
Here the families miraculous change of events will materialize if it inculcates into its members the following values.
Self esteem and confidence
in the current setting, this one has totally been given minimal attention yet is a very important to every person in the society. self esteem and confidence gives every person the basis of deciding and taking the right path. further more, if the family develops confidence and self esteem among its members they will have distinctive way of judging various situations.
Dealing with one another
the second value and vital value is dealing with one another. in most cases seen as co-operation and sharing if am right any way.
largely, every person strives to be perfect and superior compared to others. this is fast leading to jealousy and foul play which demoralizes the spirit of free dealing and competition the extent that the society has suffered a great deal than benefit from free competition. above all most people have ended up in treason and rebel activities. however the spirit of sharing should be developed at family level and set boundaries for it. individuals have ended up in corruption scandals, fraud and other related developments owing to superiority of others.
Awareness of other human beings
the family still stands at the fore front in the instilling of this equally important value into the citizens and leaders. owing to the fact that most people are deprived of this by their families, the fellows are dangerously egocentric. in fact such people are the brains behind racialism, tribalism and increased patronage since in their life time they have failed to notice that several people deserve at least equal treatment and consideration if any.
families in this case are to guarantee that their members are treated to a strict measure of equality and equal consideration for all people. this will give birth to a strong and robust nation and administrative hierarchy built on generality of human race. in cases were most people where robbed of the opportunity to attain the precious value, they have not only failed to relate and apply absolute justice for others but developed a liking the self success and material gain at the cost of others efforts.
take this common phenomena of most people channeling billions of money meant for certain development plans, economical stability and even public health improvement to their personal welfare. this makes the public constantly yearn for miraculous intercession but in vain. however developing a new race by families is not only achievable but equally important. the priceless value of taking notice of the other humans is a key player in the very stability of a family and yet it is the very institution of the nation. if kept at hand, it is a very powerful weapon in the fight against nepotism, corruption, racial segregation and tribalism among other evils of the 21st century.
the key points here are one ,may not be a substantive citizen and role player in building a nation with out loving oneself.
failure to co-ordinate, co-operate and partner with others is a cause to the even avoidable corruption nepotism and other mishaps in the systems of governance world wide
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